Be with her because you actually want to be with her, because you actually see a potential future with her, not because you are used to being with her, not because you’re scared of the thought that being without them will ruin you. The point of being in a relationship is to enjoy each other’s company, is to be there to support each other when they need it most. No one person, defines who you are. They only compliment you.
Just remember that sometimes, the way you think about a person isn’t the way they actually are.
― John Green, Paper Towns (via psych-facts)